I am a single old school bar dyke and a stone Butch, out nearly 30 years. I am known as a pioneer in online queer community building, creating Butch-Femme.com & ButchFemmeMatchmaker.com over a decade ago. I kinda live in a genderfucked bubble where most folks get that I am an unbranded hybrid. A passionate painter, poet and teacher, I am currently working on a novel.

Survivor. Outsider. Fierce.

Friends would say I am quiet, thoughtful, and amused most of the time. I am all about the juicy colors, and the tragic irony, and the running connection between all things. Bottomless and dark, but gentle and perceptive. I believe integrity is the only real justice, and honor itself is a quiet thing. Humanity is compelled by either Fear or Love. In my life, I try to choose Love… living in the moment with my eyes, mind, and raggedy heart wide fucking open. I do flinch sometimes, but have few regrets.

Oh, and I adore me some curvy Queer Femmes. And that’s where all my trubbles started, ya’ll!

Always open for bone-to-bone connections with other wised-up rebel queers, artists, writers, musicians and phreaques.

P.S. Wanna see some pics?